What women want ...

What do women want? The all-time question. Most of us would say, well just ask us and we will tell you. This is sometimes a lie. Because when you do ask us we will say things like; happiness, a clean house, a vacation, or new shoes. But really is that what we want. I have been doing some research in this area in some reliable and not so reliable places like Cosmo magazine, the bible, Face book, friends, church, my kid, my husband, my brother, and random tidbits here and there Oh and don't forget the movie! (What women want)?

So here are a list of things I have found that women SAY they want/ or May want

Shoes, a house, babies, love, time, a vacation, a clean house, happiness, more money, cars, to be beautiful, to be sexy, to be skinny, to feel better, to look better, a break, a job, a better job, more friends, less friends, their children to behave, their children to live life and have experiences, a godly husband, to be a godly wife/mother, to be cherished by someone, Chandeliers and rubber duckies.

So if there is a woman in your life; how do find out what she wants. How do you pick from the list and say ok- this is what she wants. Well you can start off by asking her, listen and watch. My hubby is VERY good at these things. When I see something I like I tell him (which is ALOT) he also watches when I browse through things. He also pays attention to what I do and say (most of the time :))

So in essence; study your woman; if it’s your wife, mother daughter or sister> you really do need to study her.

All of us desire things in life, sometimes we forget that, but we do.

Lots of women in the bible desired children (Hannah, Elizabeth, etc.) to carry on family names and due to the status that came with child-bearing.

They also desired their children to follow God (Timothy's mother and grandmother).

They desired Godly men/husbands.

They desired favor from their husbands and children.

They desired wealth and prosperity for their families.

They desired ungodly lusts.

Not all women desired all of these, but these are different things the Bible talks about.

You should also know her love language. Look up the 5 love languages online and research*

They are as follows:

1.      Quality Time

2.      Physical Touch

3.      Words of affirmation

4.      Acts of Service

5.      Gifts

Women- we need to know this about our guy too!

So back to the topic; what do women want? My answer - IT ALL....to work out.

We want to know it’s all going to be OK.

We want to know you will love us forever

We want to know our children will be safe happy and healthy

We want to know our jobs are OK, our home is OK, and our marriage is OK
Peace, Love, Joy we want it all